{"id":9386,"date":"2026-05-01T10:55:38","date_gmt":"2026-05-01T14:55:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/canadabiznews.ca\/press-releases\/pr\/new-relationship-guide-from-chasing-to-chosen-analyzes-the-impact-of-performative-behavior-on-high-achieving-women\/"},"modified":"2026-05-01T10:55:38","modified_gmt":"2026-05-01T14:55:38","slug":"new-relationship-guide-from-chasing-to-chosen-analyzes-the-impact-of-performative-behavior-on-high-achieving-women","status":"publish","type":"press-releases","link":"https:\/\/canadabiznews.ca\/press-releases\/pr\/new-relationship-guide-from-chasing-to-chosen-analyzes-the-impact-of-performative-behavior-on-high-achieving-women\/","title":{"rendered":"New Relationship Guide ‘From Chasing To Chosen’ Analyzes the Impact of Performative Behavior on High-Achieving Women"},"content":{"rendered":"
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From Chasing to Chosen, book by Kelsey Gaudreault<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Kelsey Gaudreault, relationship coach and author of \"From Chasing to Chosen\"<\/a>\n

Kelsey Gaudreault, relationship coach and author of “From Chasing to Chosen”<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Relationship coach Kelsey Gaudreault challenges modern dating advice and trends with a deeper look at the patterns keeping women stuck in unfulfilling love.<\/i><\/p>\n

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You\u2019re not chasing him. You\u2019re chasing the version of yourself that finally feels worthy of love.\u201d<\/b>\n
\u2014 Kelsey Geaudreault<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

MISSISSAUGA, ONTARIO, CANADA, May 1, 2026 \/EINPresswire.com<\/a>\/ — In an era where women are more independent, accomplished, and self-aware than ever, many are still finding themselves trapped in the same painful relationship cycles\u2014overgiving, overthinking, and ultimately feeling unchosen.<\/p>\n

In her new book, From Chasing to Chosen<\/a>, relationship coach Kelsey Gaudreault introduces a provocative idea: the problem isn\u2019t what women are doing in dating\u2014it\u2019s the unseen emotional and energetic patterns driving those behaviors.<\/p>\n

\u201cMost women think chasing is about texting first or trying too hard,\u201d says Gaudreault. \u201cBut it\u2019s actually much deeper. It\u2019s the unconscious need to be chosen as proof of your worth\u2014and that changes everything about how you show up in love.\u201d<\/p>\n

Drawing from over a decade of personal experience and client work, Chasing to Chosen explores:
\n– Why \u201cplaying it cool\u201d or adopting trends like detachment often backfire
\n– The hidden link between childhood wounds and adult relationship patterns
\n– How \u201covergiving\u201d can actually push love away
\n– Why emotional unavailability often mirrors internal disconnection<\/p>\n

Rather than offering surface-level dating tactics, the book challenges readers to look inward\u2014at the deeper beliefs and emotional patterns shaping their relationships.<\/p>\n

Gaudreault\u2019s perspective arrives at a time when conversations around attachment styles, trauma, and self-worth are becoming increasingly mainstream. Yet she argues that much of today\u2019s advice still focuses too heavily on behavior\u2014and not enough on identity and internal alignment.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe\u2019ve been taught to optimize for attraction,\u201d she explains. \u201cBut real love doesn\u2019t come from strategy\u2014it comes from embodiment.\u201d<\/p>\n

At the core of Chasing to Chosen is a shift from seeking validation externally to cultivating a sense of internal security and self-trust\u2014what Gaudreault calls becoming \u201cthe chosen woman.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n

The book also weaves in Gaudreault\u2019s personal story, including her experience of reshaping her identity in past relationships, navigating divorce, and ultimately rebuilding her sense of self from the inside out.<\/p>\n

\u201cI changed who I was to be loved,\u201d she says. \u201cAnd that\u2019s something so many women don\u2019t realize they\u2019re still doing.\u201d<\/p>\n

With a blend of personal narrative, psychological insight, and spiritual perspective, Chasing to Chosen positions itself as part of a broader shift in how modern women approach love\u2014not as something to earn, but something to meet from a place of wholeness.<\/p>\n

About the Author
\nKelsey Gaudreault is a relationship coach specializing in helping women break patterns of emotional unavailability, overgiving, and self-abandonment in love. She is the founder of UNION<\/a>, a body of work devoted to restoring feminine integrity, strengthening the inner masculine, and ending the cycle of chasing in love. Through her work, she guides women toward deeper self-trust, embodiment, and aligned relationships.<\/p>\n

Kelsey Gaudreault
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